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How to Survive Long Distance Relationship

2010-02-06T16:27:00.001+07:00

Love knows no boundaries, wherever you are, it could blossom in just about any possible part in this world. Therefore, many different couples appear separated by distance, rivers, mountains, sea, or continent. Such couples have their own challenges. But long-distance relationship has more to add up. And that kind of relationship needs extra energy to work it out, or it would easily fall apart and left a big hole in your heart. True love is always goes along with trust to make it works. Before that happens, here are some tips on how to survive long distance relationship:

Maintaining Good Communication
The remarkable development of technology nowadays is only to make our lives much easier. Now we can communicate in so many ways. Although you both live in different area, post code, country or even continents, many communication alternatives could be taken. Besides the phone, you can also use the sophistication of Internet chat. You can send photos, videos, etc. is possible to share. Moreover, the cost is also much cheaper. You have no more reason to delay to communicate what you're feeling and/or thinking. Because strong communication is the best way to strengthen the foundation of your relationship. With the long distance situation, you might have doubts, questions or anything to confirm your thoughts. Communicate yourself better to your lover through tangible and intangible ways to get connected. If you are not able to 'touch' them in person, you can always 'touch' them in the ears, mind and heart.

Compromise with them regarding the frequency. Sometimes distance can also affect the time differences. Set a schedule of communication like voice call or video phone to adjust your work and rest schedule. You e-mail them about what you're doing daily or when you just want to share them something. Treat it like a diary to keep them informed about your activity that he/she can not able to involve to.

Beside the electronic communications, regular mail by post is always be more personal and romantic. You can spray you perfume to add some intimate messages to them. Living far away from home sometimes can make people homesick. You can send them some of his/her favorite food back from home. Check with the post office and shipping company before you do. Or you can send them his favorite grandma's lasagna recipes.
Make a surprise!
Sometimes something surprising or unpredictable can spice up your relationship. You can take advantage of shipping services. Sending flowers to congratulate them on their new project or the new apartment can be a romantic longing bidders. Or you could book a flight and surprise them. Just remember that according you good communication with them through manual or electronic mails, you can get an assumption about their activity, so you could get a picture on their schedules. Make it a short visit and left them hanging on the feeling of missing you and get new energy and spirit to work better to get home soon to be with you.
Rules are Important
Long-Distance relationship needs some extra ground rules of communication to set. Being not able to meet them in person sometimes can be a tricky situation to handle. To avoid misunderstandings and awkward situations, you and your partner needs to compromise on some specific communication guide-lines. For example, regular schedule of get-together, daily or weekly phone calls, holiday's meeting, and various other rules that you two need to discuss furthermore. believe it or not, a regular schedule of direct and indirect communication will make you maintain and strengthen your relationship.Remember that any kind of relationship takes hard work and solid team work to maintain a healthy bonding and improve both your lives psychologically and physically.
Anticipate all possibility
Long-distance relationships whether you want it or not must have each own delicate factors to handle. For example, you are going to have the schedule of getting together in this weekend, but your spouse/partner has a work meeting schedule. This is where good communications takes place to substitute or you can easily adjust with it. You can delay or cancel the get together agenda and reschedule it early next time. Understanding of his/her work schedule also will gain trust and respect to each other. Support your spouse/partner at the best way you can give. Once again, communicate every possible matter with him/her.
Trust and Tolerance
With all of the delicate matter of not being able to see each other easily like other couple, long-distance relationship needs more efforts on maintaining communication. When you committed to this kind of relationship, you were also committed to all other difficulties possibilities. Positive thinking is the most important rule to adjust along with it. You wouldn't want to fight all the time when one of you or even both of you have too much negativity of their well-being.

If you want to know something about them, you can easily ask. Whatever that pops in you mind, just elaborate them with good will, that you want to understand them even more. Trusting someone your heart needs the exact same strength in trusting yourself.

Emotional statements is a delicate matter to control. But yet again, nothing is impossible. Before you deal with others, you need to deal it with yourself first. Do not let your emotion blinded your sight. When you feel or think about something negative, take a deep breath, relax yourself and then try to see things clearer. If you still can't manage your anger or negativity, do something that you like, listen to your favorite music, or watch your favorite comedy. If you still can't handle it, just sleep on it. When you wake up, you will find yourself more at ease and ready to solve your problems, then there would be a good time to discuss your thoughts to your spouse/partner.

You are in a long-distance relationship, that means you are not easily see him/her. Make your get-together time or electronic communications as qualified as you can. By training this to yourself, you will learn how to control emotion, that it is important to any aspect of your life even if you are in a regular relationship. Why corrupting your own mind with negativity when you can appreciate and be more grateful about your happiness in life? Listen carefully on any information you get from him/her, then work it out in your mind, and let it out with good way of communications (words and behaviors).
Weigh the good and bad
Every relationship brings changes in human lives. Remember this. Once again, long distance relationship has its own special qualification. If the distance were coming after you two starts the relationship, then you just to maintain the good communication that already compromised. But when you started this relationship from a far distance, you need to examine it. After a while, a certain of time, you need to contemplate with your self and take a good look inside your relationship.

You need to ask yourself has it been working for you or him/her, has it makes you a better person than before, has it improves your both live?

The most important thing to consider when it comes to relationship is that it makes you happier and fulfilling your life. Loving yourself is by letting others to love you too.

But when the relationship brings you nothing more than despair, negativity, regress in attitude, degradation of moral behavior, than you need to think it over whether it is worth the work or not.

This certain period of introspection, needs the two of you to discuss over a light-situation and cool headed. You both need to be true to your self. Even so that love has so many different forms, but when it's starting to be destructive, then you need to realize what is good for both of you.

If you should ever to decide to end it for a good reason, then you need to communicate all your way of thinking in a smart way. Do not judge, do not point fingers, do not star it with a fight. Start it with a full conscious that you both an adult with intelligence ability to solve problems in the best ways. Maybe it is better for both of you if just be best-friends with good history to live your own lives separate ways but still manages to exchange good things in life together.
Predicted future
If you both mutually think that this relationship is worth trying and fighting for, then maybe it is time for you to set goals together. If you are happy with each other, improving eachother's lives, wishing that you want to spend the rest your life together, then there would a perfect answer to make it come true, by marriage.

If you are already married in long distance situation, it is also a good time for you to strengthen you bonding with renewing your vows.

A healthy relationship makes people live happier, healthier and longer. Look into their eyes, and if you can see your self grows old with them, then it is the time for you to propose your lifetime bonding.
Talk about it, discuss all the possibilities and settlements, explore your dreams together and make it come true. When you can see the future in each other's eyes, plan it together and prepare everything thoroughly. Remember, if you fail to plan, you plan to fail.

Let your self happy by making others happy. Love your self by letting others love you. Live your life with respect, love and achievements. Than you can see your life's perspectives before your eyes. Happiness is reachable, if you let it come into your mind and heart.

This is want it means to live forever. Your history will affect others in you life. Give the best and take the risk. It is true meaning of grateful to the life that has been giving you.

Hope this will help you to survive long distance relationship and have a happy ending story.

How to Find Girlfriend Online

2010-02-04T12:39:00.003+07:00

How to Find Girlfriend Online? If you are tired looking for the perfect girl offline and you spend most of your days in front of your computer like me, then this articles might be perfect for you.

Finding a girlfriend online is not really hard, many social networks provide you with many possibilities, Dating company such as match.com are also has its own benefits. All you have to do is to set up your profile and eventually you will get what you want.

Many girls out there are looking for men online, but its normal that girl don't usually approach men first. You have to make them comfortable and trust you, then you can ask her to go out with you.

How to find girlfriend online through Social Networks? Easy but you need to be very skeptical and extra careful. To do it, you need to open many social networks, such as facebook, twitter, myscape, etc. Set your profile honestly if you really want serious relationship.

Be friendly, add more friends, not only girls but men also. Get involve in their conversations, don't be rush. If you're running out of time and just want to go strait asking her out, make sure she is available, be polite and prepare for any rejection. When you finally meet her, find out her profile through conversation. If you think he is not perfect or you, you can go back to the social networks and find another one.

How to Find Girlfriend Through dating companies? Dating companies are also good if you want to find a girl on a specific profile. You can even fill in your profile and through some questionnaire, they will record your personality and find the perfect match for you. Well if you are interested, you can try this dating company. I did try it and I found my match. Just read my review first before you decide.

Find girlfriend online is not as hard as you think, many ways to do and my suggestion to be success in online dating are:

Be honest then you also will get a honest girl. Just remember, no matter how bad you are, how ugly you are (sorry), how old you are.. You will get your match!
If you want to set a long term plan. I mean you want to find a girl that you are going to spend your life with, then be specific when you fill in the questionnaire. Sooner or later you will have one perfect match.

Hope this help and give you a new spirit to find your girlfriend online. If you have more time, please read my other articles and drop some comments, thanks.

Online Dating For Dummies

2010-02-04T11:03:00.003+07:00

Online Dating For Dummies. Date online and find the perfect mate. Looking for that special someone? This friendly guide provides practical, proven strategies for everything from selecting the right dating site and establishing your internet identity to building your profile and protecting your privacy. You'll see how to easily make the transition from e-mail to phone to meeting in person.

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Choose an online dating service
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Your Intercultural Marriage: A Guide to a Healthy, Happy Relationship (Paperback)

2010-02-04T10:37:00.001+07:00

Your Intercultural Marriage: A Guide to a Healthy, Happy Relationship (Paperback). In an increasingly global and connected world, marriages between spouses of different countries and cultures is on the rise. Marla Alupoacei, herself wed to a Romanian, helps couples sort through such issues as food, finances, family, and such “hidden” problems as different understandings of what it means to be “on time.” Marla combines real-life stories with expert perspectives and biblical insight for a helpful guide both for those just starting out on the intercultural adventure – and those in the midst of it.

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This book gives you a lot of insights about intercultural marriage based on the word of God. However, this book is not for Christians only, but also for non-Christians. It addresses the aspects that you normally forget to think of before you marry your loved ones such as: overcoming culture shock, deciding the place of living after wedding, finding agreement in culture differences on time, food, parenting, financial management, grieving, etc.

One thing I like about this book that it is concise and straight to the point. The writer seems to be helpful and pro-active in offering a help / marriage consultation since the writer sees this as her ministry. (Daniel Sulistio)

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The Long Distance Relationship Guidebook

2010-02-04T10:13:00.003+07:00

The Long Distance Relationship Guidebook is the definitive book on strengthening any long distance relationship (LDR). Its inspirational, no-nonsense advice and discussions are based on years of research and the author's personal experience. It is meant for couples who have had time to establish their connection and are now facing the challenge of spending time and distance apart.

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case studies

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Intercultural Marriage - Love Without Border

2010-02-03T19:02:00.003+07:00

Intercultural marriage, known also as cross-cultural marriage are becoming commonplace nowadays. Sometime intercultural marriage are also known as international marriage, that's when you met someone from a different country with different culture and then decide to live together. Doing intercultural marriage is not easy, many obstacle are along the way. Say that you met someone from a different country online, you feel that this person is someone perfect for you, are you sure?

Before saying "I do", here are some of most intercultural marriage's problem:

Religions
Different religions can lead to disaster, specially when someone from both of your family member is really into it and how do you guys are going to get along with different point of view? Another questions are how are you guys going to have the wedding ceremonies? What religion does your children are going to choose? Religion's holiday? Ceremonies? Etc etc etc. Well you can be liberal and be supportive on your partner's religion, but still there is a possibility of disasters. For your consideration, in some country, people are not allowed to do different religion marriage.
Personality
One of the most important things in marriage is how do you handle different personality spouse. Different background may have a great personality differences or maybe a type of personality that you've never seen or experiences before. Just be honest on your personality so you both know what to expect at each other. If you think you can't handle your partner's personality, then stop. Don't try to force yourself or you will have a big problem in the future.
Settlement
Where are you going to live? If you decide to live in your partner's country, you have to start asking the authority on how you are going live there. Sometime it's difficult to have the permission. Example, my sister in law marriage a man from Germany, now he lives in Indonesia but he doesn't have Indonesian citizenship, he only have working visa means every 3 moths he has to go back to Germany and renew his visa. Fortunately he work here at German's company so he doesn't have to pay all the expenses by himself.
Languages
If you find someone from your country which have different culture, that's ok. You both can speak the same language. The problem is when you met someone from different country which also have different language. The problem will be arise when one of you have difficulties of expressing your feeling and I tell you that this is sometime very stressing.
Habits
As we know that building someone habits most likely from childhood experiences. If you meet someone from different country or culture, you will likely find a different habits from your partner. How are you going to handle that?

But beside the difficulties, intercultural marriage is also exciting. You have a chance to learn a new culture even a new language. Many have failed but many have a very successful intercultural marriage.

The point is, if you want to have a successful long-term intercultural marriage, just be honest and not to have too much expectation on your partners. Try to be more liberal and open minded. Like every relationship, how do you communicate to each other is the most important issues to have a long term and successful relationship.

Match Affinity

2010-02-03T17:35:00.003+07:00

Match affinity, new matchmaking site from the creator of match.com. This site offers you the best compatible match for you. What is Match Affinity?

First time you sign up to match affinity, you'll be needed to complete a lot of psychological tests. It took me about 45 minutes to complete all the answers, but this is all the pain full step you have to finish. After that, you can see the result. Match Affinity test your personality in depth and compare it with another person, so you will have more shorter time to find your best match.

Just I finish all the questions, i go directly to see the match, and bingo... i found some and i can see the person's profile as well, then again you have to pay if you want to see the person's picture, but anyway it gives match affinity another plus vote from me. Well, I don't care if i have to pay to find my match.

This is what they offer:
On MatchAffinity, we look at what makes you the person you are: your values, the way you live your life and the way you interact with others... and then we show you the people to whom we think you are well suited.
You don't need to search through a database of millions of members: we will suggest highly compatible matches for you!

How Much:
It's a bit difficult to find the subscription cost at match affinity and here they are..
3-month Subscription €39,00 / month invoiced in one payment of €117,00
6-month Subscription €29,00 / month invoiced in one payment of €174,00
12-month Subscription €19,00 / month invoiced in one payment of €228,00

It's worth to try and i give matchaffinity.com 8 out of 10.

How to Find Boyfriend Online

2010-02-02T12:00:00.005+07:00

How to Find Boyfriend Online? Different from men, women don't usually approach men first. For some of you, this must be something shameful. Finding a boyfriend through internet are more acceptable nowadays, it gives you more privacy and flexibility through the process. But some things must be done to get what you want, rite?

For those of you who doesn't have any experiences on the internet, there are many ways to get boyfriend online. Many social networks are free to join, you just need little time to prepare. Many dating companies also have their own benefits.

Start by preparing your profile. Easy! Just set up your email account, i suggest you open gmail.com account, scan your real picture. Then register to some of the popular social networks on the net like facebook.com, myscape, and twitter. If you want, set up a new blog, make it like your diaries and see how many comments dropped from guys. Be honest on your profile! The same thing i suggest to guys. If you want a long term relationship then don't be afraid or ashamed to put your real picture and profile there.

Again, no matter how you look, eventually you will get what you want!.

How to Find Boyfriend Online through social networks? As i suggest above, all you need is to join many social networks, put your profile there, write your interest on your profile and your real picture. Search as many friends as you can, be active. Most guy will be interested if you ask a suggestion on something. Be careful when some guy ask you to go out, check his profile and double check. Make sure you both are going to somewhere that you think it's safe. Eventually you will find your perfect match.

How to Find Boyfriend Online through dating companies? Dating companies will save your time, all you need is to register a free account there (most of them are free). Fill in the questionnaire and you're ready. Wait till the dating company match your profile with some guys and they will give you a report. Then carefully read their profile and pick your own match. Please read my dating companies review.

You can also search someone else profile if you really desperate to get boyfriend and just ask him to go out. Well, most women don't. Anyway, just be specific on what you want from a guy and you can start now by writing down your criteria and prepare your photos. Just be Slowly but Sure If you want to have a long term relationship.

Hope this will help you find boyfriend online. If you have another suggestions please just drop a comments here. Thanks and Have Fun.

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2010-01-04T11:45:00.002+07:00

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Match.com

2010-01-02T14:05:00.000+07:00

Match.com is one of the largest online dating web site. The Match.com site enables singles from all over the world to connect. You might be seeing this advertisement many on the web and on TV advertisements. What is Match.com?

What will you find at Match.com:

Singles aged from 18-80 worldwide, so wherever you live you can always try this.
Guarantee that you will find your match less than 6 months otherwise they will give you 6 month membership for free.
3 Days Free Trials

Cost:

1 Month = $19.95 free for the 1st 3 days
3 Months = $39.95 free for the 1st 3 days
6 Months = $59.95 free for the 1st 3 days

One of the oldest and most popular online dating services and continue to improve its services. You can browse match.com for free and you will see that the results are well organized. When you search someone, you will also view the person's username, age, location and description. You can choose the age you want to search, this will filter out someone you don't really want. When you registered yourself, you can send an email to someone at match.com and after that match.com will show you list of other members whose profiles were like the person you just emailed. I love the search feature.

Another interesting feature at Match.com is the personality survey and quizlets to help you know yourself better.

Some warning to use match.com.
You will find peoples who just want to spam your email, just delete them and go on.
You will find many ads, be careful clicking a link, make sure that you don't go to another website.

overall, I give 8 points out of 10.

Because Match.com has been around for years, you will find many singles there. Just give it a try. Thanks, hope will help.

You can comment here on match.com services which you like or you don't like.